difficult people

"difficult people are unhappy people.  they give themselves no permission to be free, to flow, to be happy.  they can't control their own lives, so many times they try to control the lives of others in order to gain control in their own.  they don't realize that control is an illusion.


they carry a lot of victim energy, and don't realize that they are the only ones standing between themselves and lightness of being.  they are constantly looking outward for someone or something to blame, never inward to accept responsibility for the life they are creating."

I ask her if she has any suggestions for dealing with difficult people.  any ideas for letting them brush by without affecting us.

"stay out of judgment.  allow them to walk their path.  allow them to be who they are.  avoid attracting that kind of energy to you by removing your attention and your focus.  don't dwell on the behavior of others.  use your tools -- stay centered, don't take on the vibration of others.  vibrate at you.


if you can't say something nice, say nothing."


so mom was right.  =)

thank you, millie.