judgment

"judgment is also based in expectation, in a certain picture of how things should be, how people should act.  when you let go of expectation, you let go of judgment.


everyone is walking their path, doing their thing, being themselves, just like you are.  let them.  you are all here with different life plans, different lessons - give each other the space to learn them.


the actions of others are generally not personal to you unless you make them so.  you can choose not to make them so.  your own actions are generally motivated by your internal structure - the way you move through your life, meeting your needs as well as you can.  others are doing the same.


there are humans on the planet who are chronically unpleasant, or troubled, or evil.  that has to do with the lessons they are here to learn, with the soul contracts they have made in order to move through their experience here according to their higher plan.  most of them have no contract or agreement with you, and their effect on your life is fleeting and superficial.  let it be fleeting.  let it be superficial.  


don't internalize the unpleasantness of others.  that is their path."


I flinched about the word 'evil.'  millie says that part of free will is the ability to choose dark over light.  and some do.  and that is okay.

"everything is possible, all the time.  we have all experimented with dark and light.  that is how  we know our preference."