change

a friend asked me today what millie thought about change.  specifically, change that accompanies a shift in vibrational energy between people.  this is millie's response.

"it is natural to seek out others who share your vibration.  it feels good.  it makes it easy to share physical and energetic space and experiences.  it makes us feel connected, all of us, animals too.


sometimes two beings go on sharing a similar vibration for a lifetime.  more often, though, one or both of them shift so that they are no longer so well-aligned.  this is normal too.  growth and change are normal.


perhaps you have noticed how it feels to try to change your vibration to match another.  it is uncomfortable.  it is not sustainable.  at some point, it becomes obvious that your vibrations are too far apart to be comfortable together.  this can cause emotional pain.  particularly when this is someone you love.  


it is possible to be with people of different vibrations, as long as you maintain your own.  the discomfort and pain come when you try to shift your own vibration to match another, if the difference is too great.  your energy is your own.  when you try to change the way it feels, it is confusing and unpleasant.


it is most comfortable to allow others permission to vibrate where they do.  to be who they are. where they are.  on their own path.  it is impossible to change someone else's vibration, but vibrating at your own true energy gives others permission to do the same.


not all relationships are meant to be life long.  people flow into and out of each other's lives according to their higher plans.  some people are in your life for the lesson they bring you.  learn it and move on.  change does not have any bearing on love.  it doesn't erase love, or make it invalid.  if you love someone and it is painful to be around them, changing the relationship, moving on, going with the flow does not negate the love.  even if the love itself changes, that doesn't erase the love that was.


remember the lessons:  live from your heart.  live in the moment.  go with the flow.  be true to yourself.  trust."

thank you, millie.